The Finer, and Finest, Things in Life

In America, we have a saying: The finer things in life.good this year! But I digress...)The first game we saw
These are the things that most people talk aboutwas against the California Angels in their spring training
when they are speaking of thing of high quality. In fact,facility in Tempe. There we sat waiting for the game
much of that which propels people to pursue success,to start. Now let me assure you, this was not an
particularly financial success, is the desire to participateexperience of the finer things in life. It was actually a
in the finer things in life.Let's face it, increased financeslittle chilly out, though the sun was shining. We were
enable us to do more things and enjoy things that wesitting on relatively hard seats, and my cuisine
otherwise would not be able to afford. And we shouldconsisted of peanuts and a diet-Pepsi. Hmmmmm.But
consider that a blessing.I am at a stage where mydo you know what I found myself thinking? "There is
wife and I, and our kids, can enjoy some of the finerno place else in the world I would rather be right now."I
things in life. It hasn't always been that way. I thinkwas spending time with my boy, doing something we
sometimes it is best to have to go years of getting bywould both enjoy, and creating memories that will
so that we appreciate more fully the finer things in lifenever go away. This, my friends, was one of the finest
when we are able to experience them. I am thankfulthings in life.What are the finest things of life in my
for where I am.Who can argue of the beauty of a finebook? Here are a few. You can see where I am going
painting? Who doesn't love the smell and feel ofand name a few yourself.Reading a novel just for the
leather furniture? Who doesn't enjoy driving afun of it.A casual stroll along the beach with nowhere
well-engineered car? Who doesn't dream of theto go.An extra half-hour at the coffee shop, catching
softness and warmth of a Cashmere sweater? Whoup with friends and actually tasting the great flavor of
doesn't like a nice watch that can be passed on thea cup of coffee, rather than rushing it.A game of
your son or daughter someday? All of these arecrazy eights with my kids.A quiet evening out with my
common symbols of the finer things in life, and indeedwife.A Saturday afternoon sleeping on the couch in
they are.There is only one possible pitfall that I havefront of the fire.And the list goes on...Are you taking
found in the pursuit of the finer things in life. It isenough time to stop and taste of the finest things in
common that many fall into this trap. It is this:Whilelife? Or are you so bent on getting to a point wherein
pursuing the finer things in life, we often become soyou can experience the finer things in life?I have a
engrained, so focused in the pursuit, that we do notsaying that "good is the enemy of the best."
experience the finest things in life.You see, for theSometimes the finer things of life get in the way of the
most part, the finer things in life, as commonly defined,finest things in life. Sometimes we settle for the finer
cost money. And usually it takes a lot of time workingthings in life when we could be enjoying the finest
to make the kind of money that enables us tothings in life.Visa has a series of new advertisements
experience the finer things in life. And in the pursuit ofout right now. They would go something like this
the money to enjoy the finer things in life, we are(describing a vacation): Airline tickets: $1500. Hotel
spending so much time that we are missing regularroom: $1200. The smile on her face: Priceless.We can
opportunities to enjoy the finest things in life.Let me tellalways put a value on the finer things in life, and I
you of a recent experience. A couple of weeks ago Iwould encourage you to enjoy them if you can. But
took my son, age 9, down to see some spring trainingthe finest things in life are priceless. You can put no
baseball in Phoenix, Arizona. This was our second tripvalue or price tag on them. It is a mandate that we
down together and we hope to make it an annualtake the time to enjoy them.Take some time this
tradition. We popped down just for three days to seeweek to live up to the old saying: Stop and smell the
three games (Boy the Seattle Mariners are lookingroses. You will never regret it.